Back Pain Relaxation

Best Relaxation Techniques for Back Pain Sufferers- Ultimate Guide

Total rest by using the 90/90 position

I heard about the 90/90 position very soon after I hurt my back. It allows the back muscles to relax and often works when all other positions fail.

It is a very basic idea – to lie on your back with your legs on top of a footstool, chair, or other surface so that your hips and knees are bent at 90 degrees (right angles). They even make chairs these days that allow you to recline in this position (for instance they carry them in the Backsaver catalog). This position can be a godsend – in fact I studied this way through law school and even listened to lectures this way in class (a few people thought I was strange – oh well).

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Mind body Techniques – meditation, biofeedback, and Chi Kung

There is a whole world of mind body techniques that may be helpful for reducing pain. I will cover some of these in the movement section, but here I will mention a few that are more meditative in nature.

a) The simplest of these may be just taking a deep breath. Often I find that if I take a deep abdominal breath and exhale slowly, I can feel some of the tension drain out of my muscles.

The nice thing about this is you can do it anywhere and anytime. Try it at a stoplight when driving, and visualize the tension draining out of you as you exhale.

b) There are a number of muscle relaxation techniques I have learned over the years. At the pain clinic I went to they gave me some tapes for relaxation.

One was a progressive relaxation tape where you tense and then release your muscles. In another technique you imagine your arms and legs becoming progressively heavier and warmer to relax your body.

Yet another tape concentrates on your breath by having you inhale and exhale to a drumbeat. I usually get so relaxed using this tape that I fall asleep. I’ve listed the tapes that I enjoyed in the Resources section.

c) Biofeedback is a high tech way of learning how to relax your muscles. I did some training at the Pain Clinic and they also gave me a self tester I could take home to train with (it told me when my skin temperature was higher which indicated a higher degree of relaxation).

It worked pretty well and did give me some insight into how to relax different parts of my body independently. I would advise you to find an experienced practitioner to help you learn this, at least initially, before investing in any equipment for you to use on your own.

d) More advanced methods of mind body training are found in Yoga and in the chinese equivalent Chi Kung. Both of these methods concentrate on using breath and visualization in a very advanced manner.

I have concentrated mainly on Chi Kung, and I really love it. One of the most basic parts of the Chi Kung technique is relaxed, abdominal breathing (a.k.a. belly breathing or diaphragmatic breathing). I find that breathing in this way allows my shoulders and neck to relax a bit, although I often find myself reverting back to chest breathing which brings back the tightness. This type of breathing is also beneficial in that it brings in a lot more oxygen to your system.

Chi Kung teachers believe that breathing in this way is natural and very beneficial to your whole body. In their belief, you are healthiest when you are a baby and if you watch babies, they breathe with their belly. By breathing in this manner, they believe you can bring back some of the softness you had when you were younger and thereby the good health.

Does it work?

I can’t say it has reversed my aging, but I have found that I feel better and more relaxed when I breathe in this manner.

While there are good books on these techniques, I really recommend learning from a good teacher. How can you find a good teacher?

This can be very difficult. Asking family or friends for their recommendations is often useful. But always try to sit in on a class first to see how a teacher conducts classes and whether they would be open to working with you to modify their techniques to fit around your back problem.

I really only learned Yoga with an instructor, so I don’t have any particular books or tapes to recommend. I did like those Yoga techniques, though, that worked with props better since they accommodated my back limitations more easily. The movement aspects of these will be discussed in more detail in the movement section of these Survival Techniques.

Movement Therapy Options For Back Pain Relief

What do I mean by movement therapies? I am talking about a very broad category of therapies which help you learn to move more efficiently and pain free as well as get those stuck parts moving again.

While most back pain sufferers have gone through physical therapy, here we will talk about some lesser known, although very powerful, techniques for getting you back in action.

  1. Feldenkrais
  2. Pilates


Boy do I love Feldenkrais! It is a gentle movement therapy that somehow magically works to increase flexibility and movement where more physically intensive stretching fails.

Feldenkrais requires patience since the movements are slow and require attention. The idea is that the movements actually help your nervous system to learn how to relax the muscles and let you move as you naturally should.

The results are very interesting – when I was totally spasmed, Feldenkrais was the only thing that would get the long muscles in my back to relax.

Since I have been recommending Feldenkrais, I have found lots of people just really enjoy sleeping on the best mattress for back pain. I got my mother to try a class, and soon all her friends were going and loving it. Find a good instructor and give it a try.


If you ever get a chance to see a picture of Joseph Pilates, the founder of Pilates, at age 75, you will understand why Pilates has become one of the hottest workout trends in the country.

Lets put it this way, no one was kicking sand in his face. He invented a whole raft of specialized pieces of equipment, chief among them – the Reformer, that let you work out in very unique and effective ways.

Pilates movements are like Ballet on a machine, which uses springs as resistance. For years it was the secret training technique for the Ballet world, but now, thanks in part to Hollywood’s interest and lots of P.R., it is exploding.

It is really a unique and demanding workout that I just loved.

Finding a good instructor is vital – some of the movements can be scary and they are only safe for back patients when done with an experienced instructor. I have seen Reformers for sale in specialty catalogues with instruction tapes. I would urge you not to consider buying the equipment and learning on your own – it would be almost suicidal for a back patient to try some of these moves without as expert’s assistance.